Lament of the Mind

spookyhouse:

PSA

Hey girls! When your friend gets used and abused by a guy she was interested in, don’t pretend to be there for her just to get info and then go ahead and get into a relationship with her abuser after knowing what he did to her!

Guess what? That’s called being manipulative!

Oh also! It’s really awful to not only do that but then gang up on her with your new (also manipulative boyfriend)! ‘Cos guess what? That’s called being abusive too! Don’t try and act like the victim when you literally used the abuse and pain of someone who thought you were friends with to get what you wanted. Not only are you the one who literally thinks its okay to shit on her with your manipulative boyfriend and other people who don’t know the full story but you literally pretended to be her friend just to get closer to the man who you knew used her and caused her tremendous amounts of pain. (She was almost driven to suicide over it.) But you think you’re the one suffering something here? Learn some empathy for the victim not the abuser next time okay?